April
is Alcohol awareness month. US Department of Health site.
May is Mental Health Month mnha.org
Tips about seeing a therapist...
Almost all therapist would want you to see them every week or every 2 weeks. Hell, Howard Sterns therapist has him seeing him every day or other day. While I found that at some times when I was really distressed or depressed this was a good idea.
But if things are going alright once every 2 or 3 months is enough, heck you may even stop seeing a therapist. Right now I do the every 2 or 3 months thing, the thing about stopping with a therapist is you have to start over at the beginning if they are not up to date or you change a therapist.
Also since I need Medicine to help control my panic attacks stopping seeing a therapist and Shrink completely is out of the question for me.
If your a straight man don't go to a man unless he's straight or all the guy will want to talk about is masturbation, your sex life, hell, the guy probably became a therapist because he is trying to justify his own sexual perversion as a pedophile or homo closeted or not and he will just conclude that everything you do is because you must be a like him even if all your fantasies all involve woman, and all your sex involves woman over the age of consent.
If a therapist demands to get paid when you cancel an appointment find another therapist, see above about therapist. Also this type of therapist will be about getting your money for the long run and not helping you.
Don't have a woman therapist that's to good looking or young and good looking because you'll may be coloring your answers towards getting her into bed, you may fantasize about her, or if your truthful she may want to have sex with you or fall in love with you.
I tell you its hard not to want to do your therapist or even get into a relationship with her, if she's young and hot, because if she's young and hot and a therapist she's most likely got an idealistic view of the world and wants to help people and is a nice person. So what's not to like, but if your there for the help and you think the woman's got a thing for you, it may be better if you see another therapist.
Then there is the therapist that is preoccupied with her paper work and scheduling and takes most of your time doing that and barley listens to what you say and she's to uptight for you to talk to anyways.
Me I like the therapist that's calm a little detached and may or may not be a lesbian, that is not my type sexually if she isn't a lesbian. Still smart intelligent and personable enough to talk too if the therapist is a woman.
If it's a man for a therapist it's the same thing. He's smart, detached, even headed, has all the latest info, has read all the latest studies, he has a girl friend or wife and is straight and has similar values as you.
12/06/2008
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